My trip to Rwanda was nothing short of magical. I was already excited about going somewhere I had never been to experience things I hadn’t before, but I wasn’t prepared for how much it would change how I thought.
Perhaps the hardest part of our trip, in my opinion, was learning about the genocide and witnessing the impact it had on Rwanda’s community. I was so thankful that the organizers of our study abroad program made going to the memorials and learning the harsh reality of the genocide part of our curriculum. Although it was difficult emotionally and mentally to hear the stories and see the mass graves or damaged clothes, it was necessary to understand how Rwanda had gotten to where they were. I loved seeing that Rwanda embraced its history and did not shy away from what had happened. It inspired me to think critically about some of the policy actions happening in the United States and how I and everyone else could use what we witnessed to make change at home.
One of our goals throughout the trip was to be conscious of how we processed new information, new perceptions, new experiences, new foods, etc. The thought behind this goal was to challenge the preconceived notions of Western societies that anything different from our norm is bad. This practice of consciously trying to be open-minded made my trip so much better. Instead of being confronted with a foreign language, food, or something as obscure as driving norms and being uncomfortable, I was able to embrace the experience and learn how to better communicate and enjoy life with others.
The most unexpected learning moment for me was when I realized that no matter how different Rwanda was from home, it really wasn’t as different as I thought it would be. The people were kind and welcoming, the landscape was luscious and beautiful, and nothing was ever so out of my element that I was uncomfortable. There were so many times, before I left that uninformed family members, would tell me to be safe and careful because their idea of Africa was a desolate place with crime everywhere, but I frequently found myself feeling safer and more welcome on the streets of Kigali or Gisenyi than I would at home. I wanted to send them pictures and videos of my time there to show them just how wrong they were about the country I had fallen in love with being in.
Despite having these deep realizations and challenges, there should be no doubt that our trip made some of the best and most fun memories of my life. The people I traveled with have become some of my best friends, and many of us still talk on a daily basis. I can still remember how it felt to be on Lake Kivu riding a boat while eating raw sugar cane. I remember how many laughs and smiles there were during our fashion show where everyone wore the clothes we had bought in Kigali. I remember being terrified by the traffic and driving in the cities. I remember playing volleyball with students at the Nyabihu School for the Deaf and seeing their faces light up when we learned how to communicate with them. I remember passing massive tea plantations where all you could smell for miles were the tea leaves which brought me almost immediate peace. I remember how cool it was to see lions, giraffes, zebras, elephants, and so many other animals up close on our safari. And most importantly, I remember how wonderful it felt to be in a place where community was a top priority and kindness was the default reaction to others.
My trip to Rwanda obviously held a lot of educational impact especially because of my minor, but the personal impact it had on me goes beyond anything I could’ve hoped for. The connections I made to people and the love for Rwanda that I now have run deep, and I could not be more happy to have had this opportunity.
Abby Bunch
Political Science & History
Class of 2025